How to Build a New Social Life as a Senior

When people live in a tight-knit community, they don’t typically have many problems making friends. But for seniors who are aging in place or have just recently moved to a continuing care retirement community like The Cypress of Charlotte, chances are they may be feeling a bit isolated. One of the greatest benefits of making the move to a retirement community is the opportunity to stay active with a busy social life.

Whether you enjoy arts and crafts, you love to read, or you’re a fitness buff – there are bound to be other seniors in your community with similar interests. However, if you are a more introverted person, breaking out of your shell at the next book club meeting may be a bit more challenging. Luckily, our friendly and experienced staff have a few expert tips to help you reach out and enjoy a more active social life in your senior years.

7 Simple Tips to Boost Your Social Life as a Senior

1. Go Out and Meet New People

Even if you aren’t a naturally outgoing person, putting yourself in situations where you are face to face with others on a regular basis is a great way to meet new people. Get to know your neighbors, strike up a conversation at your favorite morning coffee stop and take the time to notice other seniors along your daily routine.

2. Organize an Event

Do you have a favorite hobby that you think others may enjoy learning about? Whether you already have a group of good friends or you’re more of a solo player, this is a great way to meet new people. Host a game night with bingo or card games, inviting anyone who is interested to come in and play a few rounds. If you get enough people involved, you can even organize a few cool prizes for the winners.

3. Workout

If you’re a senior who is interested in staying fit, going to a gym or yoga class can be a great way to meet like-minded individuals. Working out with others is the perfect way to stay motivated and have someone there to help keep you accountable for getting in that regular workout. If you can’t find a workout buddy on your own, there’s a good chance that your favorite fitness class will have a few new members joining each week.

4. Get Online

Using technology to grow and maintain your social circle is simple and easy. Spend a few minutes setting up a profile on your favorite social media platform and you can instantly reconnect with old pals, meet new ones and plan your next get-together. Technology can also help long-distance families and friends keep in touch, no matter the distance between them. From video chatting to sending a quick text, new technologies offer a unique opportunity to socialize and communicate with loved ones.

5. Volunteer

Most seniors find themselves with an excess of free time on their hands after they retire. So why not give back to your community and make some new friends by volunteering your time? There are plenty of wonderful volunteer opportunities in the greater Charlotte area that you’ll love. Choose from working with kids at one of our local museums, giving your time at a local shelter or fostering adoptable cats or dogs. Whatever you choose to do, you’re sure to make new friends while volunteering!

6. Explore New Places

Sometimes all it takes to grow your social circle is to push yourself out of your comfort zone a bit. If you find that you spend most days following the same old routine, now may be the perfect time to shake things up. Go hiking on Saturday mornings with a nature group or tour a nearby winery. Either way, you’ll get to step out of your regular routine and maybe make a friend or two along the way.

7. Adapt a Positive Mindset

Being proactive and on the search for new friends is important as we age. Where you once had school, work and your family to rely on whenever you wanted to make a new friend – in your retirement years things are different. Actively try to meet new people and be sure to mix up your routine every now and then. As you gain confidence, you’ll find that making lasting connections becomes much easier and you’ll begin to see the benefits of an active social life.

Why is Socialization Important?

Enjoying healthy relationships is vital at any age. However, the importance of regular socialization for seniors is a topic that is often overlooked as we enter our retirement years. Engaging in regular social interaction is not only great for improving your general mood but spending time with others has also shown to have many physical and mental benefits as well.

What Are the Health and Cognitive Benefits or Socialization?

Health Benefits

Seniors with a more fulfilling social life can typically avoid many of the most common physical, emotional and cognitive risks associated with continued isolation. Some of the biggest impacts that regular socialization can have on senior health are:

  • Stress relief. When you are more socially active you can see significant improvements in your cardiovascular health and improved immune system—two qualities that are linked to the ability to better handle stress.
  • Longer lifespan. Spending more time socializing can actually help seniors to increase longevity.
  • Lower risk of depression. You are much less likely to experience prolonged depression and feelings of loneliness if you are engaged in consistent socialization.
  • Better fitness levels. When you have a great group of friends and family to spend time with, you are much more likely to stay active and exercise regularly.
  • Improved self-esteem. It’s much easier to maintain a good sense of self-worth and better overall self-esteem when you have other people to share your life with.
  • Less anxiety. Seniors who socialize regularly also report reduced anxiety levels.

Cognitive Benefits

Having an active social life is just as important for your cognitive health as it is for your physical well-being. Positive social interactions are ideal for keeping your mind stimulated and intellectually engaged. In fact, research suggests that regular socialization can be beneficial in preventing cognitive decline, including memory loss, dementia and Alzheimer’s disease. Studies also show that people who have the opportunity to connect with others more often tend to perform better on memory tests and other cognitive assessments.

How Can Retirement Communities Help Increase Socialization for Seniors?

At the Cypress of Charlotte, we are all about creating a safe, fun, and healthy environment for our residents. That’s part of the reason why we dedicated so much time and energy into planning great events and activities for our residents and their loved ones to enjoy year-round. Whether you are a social butterfly looking for a new class or you’re interested in improving your physical health in our fitness program—there is something for everyone to enjoy here.

While we encourage our residents to stay active and socialize, we also know that being the center of attention isn’t for everyone. So, we strive to offer a wide variety of activities and social events that every resident can enjoy. Some of our most popular activities include:

  • Live Concerts
  • Continuing Education Courses
  • Water Aerobics
  • Field Trips
  • Dances
  • Card Games
  • Yacht Racing
  • Movie Events
  • Guest Speakers
  • Art Classes
  • Fitness Programs
  • Pickleball
  • And More!

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When you work hard at maintaining an active social life, you’ll be rewarding yourself in more ways than one. Increased socialization for seniors not only relives boredom and feelings of isolation, but it can help to improve your physical health and cognitive function as well. Your golden years should be a time of rest, relaxation, reflection, and fun! 

At The Cypress of Charlotte, our residents have access to a wealth of interesting events and activities to choose from. We want to make it easy for you to find new friends and maintain as active of a social life as you would like. You can attend live concerts, check out a movie, get into games or take up a new fitness class – all right here on campus. For more information about life here at The Cypress, contact us online to schedule a visit!

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