When people live in a tight-knit community, they don’t typically have many problems making friends. But for seniors who are aging in place or have just recently moved to a continuing care retirement community like The Cypress of Charlotte, chances are they may be feeling a bit isolated. One of the greatest benefits of making the move to a retirement community is the opportunity to stay active with a busy social life.
Whether you enjoy arts and crafts, you love to read, or you’re a fitness buff – there are bound to be other seniors in your community with similar interests. However, if you are a more introverted person, breaking out of your shell at the next book club meeting may be tricky. Luckily, our friendly and experienced staff have a few expert tips to help you reach out and enjoy a more active social life in your senior years.
7 Simple Tips to Boost Your Social Life as a Senior
1. Go Out and Meet New People
Even if you aren’t a naturally outgoing person, putting yourself in situations where you are forced to interact with others on a regular basis is a great way to meet new people. Get to know your neighbors, strike up a conversation at your favorite morning coffee stop and take the time to notice other seniors along your daily routine.
2. Organize an Event
Do you have a favorite hobby that you think others may enjoy learning about? Whether you already have a group of good friends or you’re more of a solo player, this is a great way to meet new people. Host a game night with bingo or card games, inviting anyone who is interested to come in and play a few rounds. If you get enough people involved, you can even organize a few cool prizes for the winners.
If you’re a senior who is interested in staying fit, going to a gym or yoga class can be a great way to meet like-minded individuals. Working out with others is the perfect way to stay motivated and have someone there to help keep you accountable for getting in that regular workout. If you can’t find a workout buddy on your own, there’s a good chance that your favorite fitness class will have a few new members joining each week.
4. Get Online
Using technology to grow and maintain your social circle is simple and easy. Spend a few minutes setting up a profile on your favorite social media platform and you can instantly reconnect with old pals, meet new ones and plan your next get-together. Technology can also help long-distance families and friends keep in touch, no matter the distance between them. From video chatting to sending a quick text, new technologies offer a unique opportunity to socialize and communicate with loved ones.
Most seniors find themselves with an excess of free time on their hands after they retire. So why not give back to your community and make some new friends by volunteering your time? There are plenty of wonderful volunteer opportunities in the greater Charlotte area that you’ll love. Choose from working with kids at one of our local museums, giving your time at a local shelter or fostering adoptable cats or dogs. Whatever you choose to do, you’re sure to make new friends while volunteering!
6. Explore New Places
Sometimes all it takes to grow your social circle is to push yourself out of your comfort zone a bit. If you find that you spend most days following the same old routine, now may be the perfect time to shake things up. Go hiking on Saturday mornings with a nature group or tour a nearby winery. Either way, you’ll get to step out of your regular routine and maybe make a friend or two along the way.
7. Adapt a Positive Mindset
Being proactive and on the search for new friends is important as we age. Where you once had school, work and your family to rely on whenever you wanted to make a new friend – in your retirement years things are different. Actively try to meet new people and be sure to mix up your routine every now and then. As you gain confidence, you’ll find that making lasting connections becomes much easier and you’ll begin to see the benefits of an active social life.
Discover Senior Events and Activities at The Cypress
At The Cypress of Charlotte, our residents have access to a wealth of interesting events and activities to choose from. We want to make it easy for you to find new friends and maintain as active of a social life as you would like. You can attend live concerts, check out a movie, get into games or take up a new fitness class – all right here on campus. For more information about life here at The Cypress, contact us online to schedule a visit!